Lucy was able to spice up her marriage after 30 years – by using the techniques described Fast Track Real Confidence and the cards (Which are now an App).
I missed the passion in our marriage. When we first go together, we really connected. We knew each other inside out. We wanted to be together all the time. But over the years, we lost that. I missed it. I wanted the old him back, the guy I fell in love with before we got married. The man I had was wooden and boring… So I wrote about it, and it hit me, I was just as wooden and boring as he was. I had created this marriage. Well half of it. So it was up to me to create something better. Playing the role of wife and mother to him (all the kids had left home) is half the problem. This was an insight that was so powerful that it took my breath away. I even called him Dad! What a disaster to our relationship! Dad! That name has gone. I enjoy finding new things to do with him. He likes boats so I took him to the maritime museum to hear a captain speak. I thought I would be bored with that, too. But it was interesting to learn about naval ships and how fast they travel, and how they run, like a mini city on the water. Needless to say, our marriage has improved dramatically. We have some of the passion back, but, more importantly, I have a much deeper connection than I have had for years. Thank heavens for my journal.