This week we hear from Melinda whose insights helped her find happiness again. She followed the techniques outlined in Fast Track Real Confidence and the cards (now an App). She continues to go from strength to strength.
I always needed other people’s approval to do things. If no-one was watching I would just coast along. The minute I noticed anyone even glancing my way, I would give it my all. I wanted to be admired. Actually it was more urgent than that. I wanted to impress others to make them love me. Over the years, this need in me was not making me happy. I felt discontent with my lot, and could not understand why.
Until I started writing in my journal. That is when I realized that other peoples’ opinions don’t matter. It is my opinion that matters. It is the approval of myself that I need to focus on now. Self-love is the name of the game here. How do I do that? – I asked my journal. Then it came to me. I saw the way forward. I needed to focus on what made
me happy. So when I did something that made me happy, I did it well. My confidence lifted. Better still, I found a part of me that I never knew existed. I felt liberated beyond my wildest dreams. I just needed to please me. I may not have found this out if it had not been for my journal writing—and those magic cards. They were the trigger.